Every year a sorority sister and dear friend of mine throws a lingerie party in Feb. Celebrating love, friendship, body positivity, good food, good company, and cute ass lingerie.
As I was getting ready for this years festivities, I gave some thoughts to past lingerie fits. I thought about how I should have been keeping a digital record of looks. No time to start like the present. Hmmm, yearly post dedicated to lingerie party festivities? I think so. Let’s go and get 2024 on the books.
Let’s start off with how I figured out what to wear.
So I’m looking in my closet. I’m going through several lingerie pieces. Fumbling through half my wigs. Trying a few garters, bras, and panties on. Thinking about the color scheme I want for the evening. What’s going to be easy to deconstruct when I have to go to the bathroom. I was being real practical that evening. Comfort was the driving force behind all of these questions.
I finally settled on a bodysuit. One that I have written a review on before. You can read that here. The only thing different is the color. I decided to go with the pastel because, color. I’ve been craving more color in my life lately. Could be due to the winter blues. Could be me realizing that an educator doesn’t have to “look” a certain way. Yah know, the basics. I grabbed the pastel version and paired it with my favorite thigh highs. (Thigh highs that I’ll have to write about because they are a thick thigh dream.)
Blue hair. Simple makeup. Boom, I’m ready to go.
Now mind you, this party was going on well before covid. This is a beautiful yearly occurrence. The fits are ordered, the fits are planned out, it’s a time. I really wish I had photo evidence of every single Galentine’s night I’ve been to. I could definitely tell you what I’ve worn but there is nothing like a photo to capture a memory. Something I’m learning more of as I get older. Several thoughts coming up about memory, but we don’t need to go there right now. But yes, so today we start documentation with intent 😤.
There’s food, games, knowledge share, music, dancing, vibing. An event full of Black women being their authentic selves during Black History Month. *chefs kiss*
Here I am once again blurring out my vagina. Although! I will say, you can’t see her in this photo. This material is sheer, but I’ve found in photos you can’t see much. Like you can’t even see my belly button really. This specific bodysuit isn’t available on the savage x fenty site currently. She could make a comeback though! Rihanna tends to release a few colors at a time, and so far we’ve only seen this one in black and mint. Sooooo this could come back in a white….blue….pink. OPTIONS. Options.
If you do want to try something else in the mean time, this bodysuit is similar in style.
Savage Not Sorry Underwire Teddy in Black
Underwire. High thigh cut. Thong booty. The one I just mentioned has a lace instead of mesh. Comes in sizes XS-4X. You can’t go wrong with a SavageXFenty bodysuit.
Thank you for reading, thank you for stopping by. You can find thigh highs like mine and more at thundathighs.com. I HIGHLY recommend these for fellow thick thigh havers like myself. Comfy. Stretchy. SEVERAL styles. I’m tempted to order a pair right now tbh. A nice blue or cow print…..
Present LingerieSlayer here: I want you to know I meant to post this in February. Then I got in my head about it. Felt like I needed to expand in certain areas, on certain things. Aaaannndd that anxiety lead us to where we are now. Antywayyyss.
How was your February? Did you make time to prioritize self-care? Pleasure? Some things to think about.
Plenty of posts coming for you in March. I got chu, I got chu.
Until next time slayers 💕
Lingerie Slayer 
Thoughts?